Dating : Need advice on new love interest
I (M25) matched with a girl (F21) on tinder and talked with her for the period of 10 days (talked 5 of these 10 days) on whatsapp and we really clicked. We had a date planned and on the day of the date (11th day) everything was perfect, we talked all night and laughed. There was no physical touching, except greeting hug. When i took her back to her uni halls (she is in my country for a course for 1 more month) she invited me upstairs to check the view as she is on the 7th floor. After talking about it a bit, because the receptionist was gonna check me, we decided to try the back door. So there I was in her room, I didn’t know what to do so I decided to leave after a while as she had to pack cause she had a weekend excursion with the uni. But as we hugged goodbye there was this uncontrollable feeling that i wanted her and she wanted me, so we ended up having sex. She was ecstatic and seemed to be into it a lot. Once we were done, i proceeded by dressing up and she was hugging me as i was doing that. She told me she wished she didn’t have to wake up so early but we said goodnight and i left. Next day i texted her that i had a really great time with her and she replied the same. I sent her a text again recommending some places to visit during her excursion but she replied a long after. Next day i texted her about a place i thought she would like but she did not reply. I was confused so I checked tinder and i see that her location changed to the other city.
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During the date we said that we would both like to have lunch together the following week, but now I’m confused. I know nothing serious can happen as we both leaving the country soon but i would love to pursue it for as long as i can since i really clicked with her (summer fling i guess).
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Should i stop contacting her for a few days and see what happens? Should i try reminding her of the lunch date a day before? I have plenty of matches but i really like this girl.
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Thanks for reading, i would appreciate any advice!
I don’t know what kind of person you are, but I think it sounded like she wanted some intimacy after the sex (I mean a get up and go type or intimate).
I can understand somewhat where she is coming from, maybe if you want a relationship tell her you would want to do it again but just lay beside each other and talk afterwards?
I’m just suggesting