Dating : Need advice
So this is kinda a long story but I don’t really know what to do. I’ve been talking to this girl off and on for the past 5 years. Met her sophomore year of high school and we dated for about about 5 months when we lived 2 hours away. She would come up to my place on weekends sometimes and we would talk every single night for hours. We knew everything about each other it felt like. Over the course of a few weeks she ended up becoming distant and wouldn’t respond to my texts or calls. My best friend who still lived in my hometown told me she was fucking around with other dudes. I confronted her about it and she flipped out and we stopped talking. She ended up dating this guy and had a kid with him. Sometimes while she was still dating him, would call me up, or text me saying he was abusive towards her and that she loved/missed me. They ended up going on the Steve Wilkos show like 6 months into their relationship when she was pregnant and it was a little surreal. I heard they moved to Kansas to live with the dude’s grandparents. They ended up splitting after the kid was born and she immediately started to message me saying « I’m sorry, I miss you ». We talked for a few months and she wanted me to move in to her new apartment. I sold my gaming PC that week so I could have enough money to fly out there and have some spare cash to be stable for a bit til I found a job. As I looked for flights she messaged me saying we can’t do this and that it was too fast. I still tried to keep it working out so I said it was fine. We slowly stopped talking everyday until she got « raped » out there. Some guy she let stay over at her house who was into her had sex with her and she called me one night crying. I tried to be supportive and talked to her for hours. After that she stopped talking to me. Now she is dating some guy not even a few weeks later. That’s where I’m at currently. I feel like an idiot for letting her use me when she knows I’m still madly in love with her. But at the same time I’ve never had a connection with anyone else like that. Friends have told me to just stop talking to her, but whenever she starts talking to me I feel like I can’t turn her down ever. I don’t know how to let her go.
You need to stop talking to her, block her or do whatever but she is using you when she has no one else and then replacing you as soon as she finds someone.