Dating : Not sure if I’m physically attracted to someone?
I’m (24 nb AFAB) and this man I’ve been speaking to (24) has been very sweet with me. Overall I would say we have a lot chemistry when we text and when we hang out I can laugh at things he says and he laughs so hard at what I say. I enjoy his company. I do think he’s not bad looking—I just don’t know if I fully feel attraction towards him? I feel very conflicted. I want to feel fully physically attracted to the person I’m with but I also don’t know if it’s because I haven’t gotten to know him more. I feel so evil for admitting all of this. Any pointers or advice?
It’s ultimately up to you. I think if you’re really on the fence, give him more of a chance and see him more, but if you can’t mentally get there with him, then it’s ok to end things.
I once dated someone I wasn’t insanely physically attracted too. I probably loved her more than anyone else. But it’s up to you everyone is different.
I would give it a chance honestly especially if things are going great. Also depends how long you’ve been seeing him. If it’s just been 3 dates or so give the dude more of a chance to bond with you and get more comfortable. If you’re saying it’s been two whole months and the attraction is not growing then I would let it go.