Dating : Need advice! Approaching a guy
I recently matched with a guy on Hinge and within 2 messages being exchanged, I told him that I was interested in his friend that was on his profile. We joked back and forth and he said that he would tell bring it up with him and would add me on Facebook.
He later told me that his friend was playing it cool but was interested in meeting up on the not too distant future and that I should expect him to add me soon.
A week later and still no add. I’m now Facebook friends with the guy I originally matched with as I genuinely think we could be friends. But I don’t understand why the friend hasn’t added me yet? But I think he has recently joined hinge – so perhaps my approach was a confidence boost.
Is it just that there’s no urgency? Was the friend lying to me and didn’t actually tell him? How long do you play it cool for? Any insight into the male brain would be great!
Omg this poor guy….you matched with him to say you actually were only interested in his friend????
That sounds tough. Just speaking on how I’d feel (my younger self), if I matched with you, and depending who that friend is (whether I have a rivalry or not), I might be sensitive about you expressing more interest in him than in me.
There’s a chance the guy is telling the truth, a chance he’s is still talking to you to « win you over », a chance he’s just punishing you for not liking him, or a chance his friend just doesn’t like you, etc.
Lol if ur pretty as fuck it’s automatic add.
Ask that first maybe he can’t be arse