Dating : not sure what i’m doing wrong
i (23F) feel like i have failed at dating for the past two years. i was in a long-term relationship for about a year and a half, and since then have had little to no *action* in the aftermath. i’m not particularly looking to be completely tied down or just for a hook up … i’m really open to anything. i also don’t consider myself too picky, just looking for an outgoing dude with a sense of humor.
i think my main issues might be:
1. i’m relatively shy/not the life of the party, but open up when you get to know me. i might come off as stand-offish if you’re just looking at me thanks to my RBF, but once you talk to me i am a nice person (for the most part lmao)
2. i often feel less feminine than other girls, so it’s hard for me to feel attractive? in addition, i’m 5’9 » and avg weight – sometimes i guess i just feel larger i suppose (which is a sep issue that i am working on)
there could be other things i’m not thinking of rn, but those two issues stand out to me the most as something that could be preventing me from success? also, for reference, i have tried dating apps. met up with two guys and the dates were fine, i just didn’t feel anything really so it didn’t go anywhere. i know it’s hard to evaluate based on such little information, but i’m happy to answer any questions that might lead to any honest and unfiltered advice – i can take it. thanks 🙂