Dating : Offers you can’t meet
I met a guy on vacation and he offered to fly me into his city to visit him, which I thought okay that’s sweet. Well, we were talking about the flight details and he asked if it’s okay for us to split it with him paying 2/3rds and I 1/3rd of it. Typically I would be okay to just pay the whole thing myself but I just think it’s kinda crappy to offer something you can’t deliver on. Am I giving him a hard time or should I stand my ground.
Speaking as someone who is currently on a flight back to their home city after a guy said the same thing and DIDN’T DELIVER. Both financially or sexually, don’t do it.
Talk to them for a looong time and make them come to you for the second meet up. If they are serious about you they’ll fly out.
Nah if he offered, he should be the one footing the bill. Are you really interested in this guy? Just keep it casual and text for a bit without any visits. When you decide you really want to visit, then you pay your own way.
No, fuck that
Cheap, find a guy that is capable.
Else ur still kids.