Dating : Overly friendly cashier or dare I say…actually interested in me?
I ordered from a sub place and the girl who works the cash register seemed extremely giddy and excited towards me, asking about my name (it’s Asian so it’s foreign to most, happens plenty so didn’t think much of it), and complimenting my debit card (it’s colorful) but her voice was all over the place and very high pitched (she almost seemed drunk, that’s how all over the place she was). She remembered me from like 2 weeks ago when I came in and was the same way.
I never hit on cashiers, waitresses, workers, etc. because I feel like that’s just their job to be nice and also cliché to do so, so I never think much of that but this seems excessive. She’s cute and definitely an “artsy” girl which I dig but am I just reading way too much into this and just got bamboozled into tipping her or….
Okay so I’m a girl who works a cash register in a coffee place.
I flirt. All. The. Time. Like constantly. It’s a way to pass the shift and a way to make people feel good. So I do it. It’s mutually beneficial and yeah, I like to think it brings people back to buy more when they’re feeling down.
Also I work in a coffee place so I’ve usually had a few coffees.
Baring all of that in mind, it could be she’s just like me and flirting with everyone/flirting just to pass the time.
BUT
There is this one customer who I think is really fucking hot. He has only come in a couple of times but it made my day on both occasions. I remember he orders a plain latte. Super simple so I can flirt while I’m making it and look even more smooth and skilled.
He’s funny and super handsome and lives kinda local so I’m interested.
I reckon he’s too handsome to be single, so he’s probably got a girlfriend and is just flirting back to entertain himself. Weirdly, in the UK, flirting is really normal and means basically nothing
BUT
There’s basically no way you would be able to distinguish between how I talk to him and how I talk to other customers. Unless you were to watch my mood before he came in and watch it after he left and see that I’m actually happier.
I’m not saying stalk her, I’m just laying out the truth.
The job may be to be nice, but…
Why don’t you just engage her with some more serious questions and see if she at least responding back with something other than yes or no answers?
The fact she asked your name, and that she gave you a compliment signifies that at least she noticed you.
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!
Also maybe take your sub « for here » and sit down with a book. Then you can note if she’s like that with everyone. You could even say, « Hey, you’re so nice, it makes ordering a sub a good part of the day. »
Nothin to loose man. Just ask her some deeper questions than you usually do. And see if she is comfortable… take it from there
Maybe she’s flirting, maybe she’s just being friendly. Either way, you find her attractive and are interested in her, so ask her if she’s single and would be interested in talking some time.