Dating : Seeming distant after having fun together?(19f)(19m)
Hi all!
Recently I started talking to an old friend I’ve know for about 3 ish years, he initiated contact with me by complimenting a photo of myself I had posted. We started talking, flirting and then a few days later hung out.
We were intimate when we hung out but also just had a ton of fun laughing together, playing Nintendo games and being affectionate. I spent the night and when I was leaving the next morning he kissed me when we woke up and right before I left.
The issue is he seems a bit distant now, we’re still talking but not nearly as much as we were previously. Before we were intimate I told him I didnt want to just hook up and he agreed, also throughout the night kept talking about how he didnt wanna embarrass himself because he thought I was so cool and cute. We have plans to hang out again when i get back from my trip but I’m just anxious that maybe he isnt into me? I’m trying to be rational as possible about it, considering he is a hard worker and he also might not want to come off as clingy because he had mentioned being afraid he was when we were hanging out. Am I overthinking things or is my gut feeling about him not being into me correct?
TLDR: Had lots of fun together with someone I liked, unsure if I’m reading too much into their behavior or if they’re not actually into me.
Pretty simple, just wait for the plans to come around, have more fun, if he’s being engaged in person, then he probably just isn’t much of a texter, just save it for dates.