Dating : Shall I try it with a guy or too much?
Hi there!
I want to try one thing on a guy I like but I am scared to look too sl**ty. Tell me what you think. We are kind of friends now, not really close, we’ve known each other since December.
I will be wearing a crop top where a part of my chest will be open (but nothing inappropriate) and I am gonna drink water from a glass and « accidently » spill it down my chin on my chest and I will start soaking the water up with my hands first then I will use a towel. All while just chatting with the guy. The purpose is to make him look at and think about my b**bs without giving it away.
Please, tell me if it’s stupid or sl**ty. Thank you.
PS. WHAT OTHER THINGS GIRLS DO THAT IMMEDIATELY MAKE YOU FEEL SEXUAL ABOUT THEM BUT NOT THINKING SHE IS A S**T?
I don’t think it’s slutty, it just sounds really immature.
But for what is it for at the end? Is there a purpose on all this mumbojumbo or is it just to arouse him?
i’m with u/BeautysBeast and never think a girl is a slut. Especially is she shows interest. I’ve mostly had women approach me to initiate convo and such. I like the whole water thing but for me, the way I was raised ruined me if something like that were to happen. I was always taught to respect women and never objectify them. But that’s worked against me in a few situations where I cringe thinking about how I didn’t pick up her signals and ruined the moment. He might not be damaged like me and respond positively. I love it when a girl sits on my lap and flirts with me. You could try something like that and see how he responds and where he puts his hands. There is nothing wrong with guiding him, like putting his arm around you to hold you close. Then maybe push your boobs in his face and say « sorry, they can get in the way but they just felt good next to your lips » or something like that. You sound awesome and don’t let other peoples hangup’s make you question your sexuality or make you feel like you’re slutty. Nothing wrong with being confident and going after someone you like.
I don’t ever think a woman is a « slut », well, at least not in a negative way.
When a woman sits down at the bar, and her thong peaks out of the back of her jeans.. Oh yea…
Or catch the glimpse of the top of her stockings.. Yummy.