Dating : Should I bring it up?

Dating : Should I bring it up?

Hey guys, normally I just lurk but I’m in need of some advice. I (F24) matched with a guy (M22) about 5 weeks ago and we have been talking every day on insta since then. We’ve recently been on our third date and I feel like its been going really well, however I’m scared he’s starting to lose interest. He is taking a long time to reply to messages (sometimes 10+ hours – and we’re in lockdown so he’s not at work or anything). Normally theres between 30 minutes and a few hours between replies from the each of us.

I definitely have an anxious attachment style and am feeling really nervous because I am super into him. Anyway, I’m wondering when it would be appropriate to ask him whether he’s seeing other people/what he’s looking for/whether he would be open to a relationship down the track. I think I’d like to know for my own sake as I’m kinda losing my mind thinking about it and I don’t want to get carried away thinking that we’re going to be in a relationship eventually and end up getting hurt feelings.

My current plan is to ask him over for dinner once our lockdown eases up and see if he’d like to stay the night. We’ve been intimate twice now for context. Do you think it would scare him off if I asked him about what he’s looking for/seeing other people on the fourth date? I don’t want to end up heartbroken.

TLDR: is the 4th date too soon to ask whether someone is seeing other people and if they would be interested in something serious down the track?