Dating : Should I let my girlfriend do stuff for me? How do I get her to still feel empowered while doing it?
Hello it’s me again. I have done advice on past post’s, and it’s wonderful. We compromise now instead of me just agreeing with her, and sex wise she loves the feedback(it actually makes her even more happy that I’m enjoying it). All is well, but one area I need some help on.
It’s about her doing stuff for me. Not like l learned to compromise, but her actually doing stuff for me. Ever since you guy’s advice on being my own person, and enjoying sex too, she is way more happy & loving. Just that now she’s doing stuff for me. Just recently she bought me a comic book collection, and a new video game. Most importantly she made me some latin food (she is hispanic) when I got home from hanging out with my friends.
It’s not like i’m not doing stuff for her too, but ever since I took people’s advice, she wants to do stuff for me now. I’m not sure on what to do, I don’t want to misuse her or anything. I still care about my girlfriend of 3 years, and I really appreciate it. I just don’t know what to do now. Should I tell her to tone it down, or should I let give me stuff in the relationship too? I still want her to have female empowerment, not giving stuff to her man (me). Any solution, tip, or advice would be really nice. Thank you reddit for the advice last time, it was really worth it.