Dating : Silly question. Girl changing her dating profile slightly while « dating » me. Any reason for concern?
Match with a girl on Hinge. Go on a 3 good dates with her (drinks, zoo, drinks outside and walk back to my new place and show it to her). All is going great, but I unfortunately wuss out and don’t kiss her at the end of date 3. Later in the night, I text her and tell her I messed up by not kissing her. She tells me that yes, I should have, but all good.
A couple of days later, she leaves on a 2 week trip to Europe with family. We’ve been messaging each other a bit back and forth over WhatsApp whenever she has wifi available. Made plans to go to dinner a couple of days after she gets home so she can tell me more about the trip. Dinner is on next Thursday.
Today, I went back to her profile on Hinge to check something to chat with her about. I quickly notice that her line about « asking for travel advice for Europe » has changed to « suggest a date if you like xyz », and she reordered a couple of pictures.
My question is, is this anything to be worried about? I have to say, I’ve really enjoyed hanging out with this girl, and would like things to go further. Now, I realize that I did make a mistake not kissing her before she left on her trip, but was planning on 100% doing that on the next planned date. I guess it just makes me nervous that she’s changing her dating profile while she’s on another continent.
Why would you be surprised she’s still actively using dating apps if you haven’t kissed yet?
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Same thing happened to me while I was dating a guy & I just unmatched w him on tinder & confronted him about it. He said we had nothing serious going on & that it was just a fling and that he was talking to multiple other girls. I just told him he was the only guy I was talking to and he never responded back
Yes, just use this as a learning experience. It already sounds like to me that she has moved on to the next guy in her head. She’s just waiting until someone else comes along. The fact that she’s still on her dating profile means she doesn’t feel exclusive to you. It happens brother. Just learn from it and move on. As you keep dating you’ll get more confident and women love that. Women love it when guys are assertive and know what to do at the right time « putting the moves on her » so to speak. Good luck my friend.
I think you should talk to her and ask her if she wants to meet new people or tell her if you want to be exclusive.
I recently went out with someone who sometimes acted as not too interested so I uploaded a new picture because I thought it looked pretty (but not talking to anyone) and he saw it and went mental treating me really bad and dumping me.
My advice: we are adults and everything comes down to communication.