Dating : SO Annoyed
Am I the only one with this problem? I do NOT have casual sex. I am very upfront about it. I was setting up a date with this guy I have been talking to casually for a week. We planned to meet for lunch. He messages me and asks if we can get a room after the meal. I was so disappointed. I reminded him that I only want a meal and conversation. A meal in which I am more than happy to pay for my own. He went radio silent. This scenario has happened to me more than once. Is there a way to avoid this or is this just to be expected with the current dating culture?
What’s the tone like in these kinds of conversations, cos it maybe sounds like he’s not getting that its dinner only. I myself am not into casual sex and I make it perfectly clear,if that’s what the guy is after to go find someone else, cos it isn’t happening.
Then I just move onto another conversation with someone else, no point in carrying on talking to them, when that’s all they are gonna want.
There are guys out there with the same dating expectations as you….myself included. I’ve always had traditional values and a girl offering up sex on the first date makes me question her character. Different strokes for different folks. Trust me, quality guys worth your time will not pressure you or make you feel guilty about waiting. Don’t give in to the current hookup culture if you don’t feel comfortable doing so.
Well men wouldn’t do it if it didn’t work…
He is a creep!
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