Dating : So I take it she’s just not interested or what the hell?

Dating : So I take it she’s just not interested or what the hell?

So about a month and a half ago I started talking to this woman on tinder. We got along great and quickly moved to Instagram where we talked for hours daily for almost two weeks. Out of nowhere she ghosted me and then came back over a week after that saying she’d been busy and had a family emergency so she was spending a ton of time with the fam.

We had planned to meet up before this sometime and I asked her if she was still interested and she said she was but for the last two weeks I haven’t been able to get her to commit to meeting even though she says she wants to. The first two weeks since we started talking again she was busy studying all day for her finals as a senior in college so I understood. But she finished her finals and we could have met this last weekend but she said she just needed time to relax.

So ok fine. I let her know when I’m off and that I was free the last couple days but she said she was going to be in a neighboring city but is down to meet up when she gets back and that she would let me know. On top of all this, ever since we started talking again the conversation dried up significantly IMO and isn’t at all like it was the first few weeks. So she said she’d let me know when she’s free, which is presumably this upcoming weekend but at this point I’m just not feeling like it’s ever going to happen.

Should I just walk away and if she messages me to meet then great? I’m this close to straight up asking her if she’s interested at all but I don’t want to come across as desperate or pushy, but like we’re closing in on two months from when we originally started talking. Tired of the mixed signals. The way she’s acting feels like she’s not and there’s been times we could have met up, and on the other hand she’s said she’s interested. I just don’t know, man.

edit – And no, she’s not a catfish, we’ve video chatted multiple times.