Dating : Something Strange I Noticed
This is a strange thing ive been experiencing lately. I broke up with my ex about three months ago, and I’ve been feeling better than ever honestly, it was a very one sided relationship but I tried my best thinking he didn’t love me because I must’ve done something. Sometimes think of him, sometimes he’s in my dreams? Which is odd but that means he’s in my subconscious and not at the forefront of my mind. Sometimes I miss him or the idea or whatever. My emotions towards the whole ordeal have died down significantly in the last month, I had expected myself to feel down for at least six months but lately I’ve been finding myself thinking « damn I really want a boyfriend » and I don’t really know why I’m feeling that now. Has anyone else experienced this?
I’m asking this because it’s getting to me in a way it never has before having a boyfriend. I dated my ex for 11 months and prior to that I was never looking for a relationship or anything so I find it strange that I have this nagging thought about wanting to be in a relationship. Is that Stupid? Idk
Isn’t it normal to have people be in your mind and dreams though? I mean isn’t there a saying if one person is dreaming about a person that person is dreaming about them? no I think u just want to be in a relationship because u want to be loved VS. then what you experience in your one-sided relationship.