Dating : Stop rationalizing things in the name of “love”.
I noticed on this forum there’s men and women asking things that are red flag warnings from the jump. When someone shows you who they are, it should be believed the first time and I know we try to rationalize it since we are attached to the person and want to see the good in others but don’t dim your own light for love and affection. Can people change? Sure but take what you see now and save yourself while you can.
I learned to stop making excuses for people awhile ago. It really is as simple as if they wanna see you and be with you, then it’ll happen.
[In the naaaaaaame of loooove,](https://youtu.be/LHcP4MWABGY?t=63)
[ What more in the name of looove](https://youtu.be/LHcP4MWABGY?t=63)