Dating : Strange behavior
So I’m dating this girl and I have seen her 4 times, last time she said she didn’t see it get serious and was very very upfront about it almost like she was trying to hurt me on purpose (by repeating it several times), well I was okay with that we talked a bit and then we cuddled, kissed and she wanted sex.
I told her I was not going to have sex with her because it would fuck with my feelings. So I had a hard time ignoring her advances but I managed to not have sex with her. After a while she left and texted me she was home, I told her like thx for letting me known and didn’t got a text from her for 2 days now.
The time we spend after she told me she didn’t see anything serious coming out of it was very light playful and fun, we both laughed and had a good time.
I already kinda picked up on the vibe that she was not serious with me and called her out on it. Maybe not the smartest move but yeah idc. Im not going to text her again and I’m fine with not seeing her but it’s also kinda strange, feels a little like she was messing with me or she is scared of commitment. But I really don’t know.
Do you guys have any ideas?
I recommend getting over her. It’s good that you set out boundaries and know yourself enough that having sex isn’t a good idea. It’s also good that she told you the truth. You will find someone who is genuinely interested in you in the future, it will be ok my friend 🙂
Been there, it’s not worth it if you’re gonna be wishing for something real