Dating : Those first date butterflies
I (F23) met a guy (M23) last week at a group event i am in. We hung out the whole time and vibed really well and by the end he asked for my number. We texted all week about everything from theories of how we would die (a funny way not morbid lol), funny family stories, favorites in every categories . Overall i can have a convo with this guy about the funniest things and it never seems to run out.
Last night we went on a date to a bar and ended up going to a buncha different bars and had so much fun. We had dance offs and he kissed me like every second. We went back to his place and made up so many fun games and had a genuinely good time. We didn’t have sex but did all the rest and he didn’t pressure me or anything. I told him i didn’t want to have sex because i actually like him and didn’t want it to be a one night stand, he agreed.
Overall i am so happy with everything and i want to keep seeing him but i am nervous because everything has been so good so soon. I have had similar situations where a guy seems super interested the randomly disappears so i really don’t want that to happen. I just really like him and i don’t wanna come off too eager.
TDLR: Met a guy who we are both into but don’t want to seem too eager
Don’t overthink things! Just have fun and let things fall into place naturally. If he ghosts, then he was never the one for you. But I cannot warn you enough: do not overthink and overanalyze! 🙂