Dating : Tips for Picking Up Women At Bars?
So now that bars have opened up again, and I haven’t really been able to date anyone since March 2020, I want to go out and talk to women at bars and see what happens. However I’ve never picked up a girl at a bar before; right after I turned 21 COVID happened so I didn’t get a chance to gain experience. As I’ve discussed before, I had opportunities to have a girlfriend before but screwed them up due to my struggles with depression and social anxiety. Having finally overcome those obstacles and put them behind me, I just want to go out and have fun with the opposite sex.
Does anybody have advice for this? I would like both male and female perspectives. In previous interactions with women I didn’t really know how to flirt, partly because of my strict upbringing. Now I’m more comfortable complimenting girls on their hair, clothing, etc but since I tend to be a serious person I’m also trying to work on coming across and as happy and funny but without overdoing it. If I talk to a girl and we like each other, would it be better to ask for her number or if we could go to my place/her place? I’m not sure what most girls are looking for when they go out, especially if they’re with friends.
