Dating : Training wheels?
Hey guys. Hope you are all super today.
So I just need a bit of advice. I’m M24 and I work in logistics. However I often find myself working with this chick from finance. She is very sophisticated, smart, and fairly attractive. However she is not really my type 🙃.
She has dropped hints like crazy, I just sort of pretend to not notice and be oblivious. My coworkers rag on me for being such a dbag because they say she’s like crazy over me, which sorry of scares me a bit like psycho wise, but she is quite a confident woman.
So in order to be polite I’ve invited her out together with a friend of mine just to show to show I’m open to ‘friendship’. She’s always interested in what I’m doing etc.
So now I’ve been thinking, I don’t really have much experience with women (never had a relationship that lasted longer than 6 months). Come to think of it, never really had a close female friend. Which brings me to my question,do you guys think its a good idea for me to try and develop a friendship with this chick? I’m not even looking for friends with benefits or romantic relationship. I was thinking of using this experience as more for developing my interpersonal skills, confidence with woman,etc.
I hope she will be open to just being friends, if not then life goes on…(oh….now i see that it looks like I just want to use her for personal gain….is that such a bad thing?😰)
Let me know what you guys think.
I wouldn’t. As a woman who has crushed on many guys in my 40 years, this will just lead her on and make her feel worse. Find others who will be completely platonic with you to learn, and set boundaries with this one so she can move on. If in time she stops pining for you, you can attempt friendship then.
Would you f*ck her?