Dating : Two More Weeks
I am really bad at expressing my thoughts down in writing, so I’m really sorry if none of this makes sense but any advice that I could get would be really helpful.
So basically here’s my situation. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for around half a year now and everything has been super great and we’re both high school seniors. She and I love each other a lot and every minute of time that we spend together is just straight awesome. This is my first relationship ever so I don’t really know anything about breakups or exes work yet because I haven’t had to worry about it yet. I don’t know how long we will stay together but I can’t imagine letting her go anytime soon. But anyways, I only have two weekends left with her because I’m leaving for college across the nation and I won’t be able to use my phone to even text and call her for at least 2 months. I just don’t know what to do because I feel like we still have so much left to do in so little time.
We’re going to try to keep a long distance relationship, but speaking realistically, she is really attractive and a lot of guys already hit her up so I don’t know if she would want to stay with someone who can’t even talk to her for at least two months. So, I’ve never said goodbye to someone that I’m in a relationship with before, and knowing how long-distance relationships work out, this might be my last ever chance to spend any time with her as my girlfriend. Once I come back, I’m afraid that she might not like me anymore because we’ve grown and changed too much. What should I do for these last few weeks of time left? How to I make that last goodbye before I leave? How do I handle the fact that she might move on from me while I’m gone? Please help I’m like going through a mini crisis right now.
Please feel free to ask for any clarification.
Realistically speaking, I would say the chances of a LDR lasting all the way through college are very slim, especially if you go no contact for 2 months. Be aware that a lot can hapoen in 2 months, one of you could fall in love with someone else for example. You should think through whether you want to risk your relationslip slowly bleeding out, or thank eachother for a great time and end things as you leave. Perhaps you guys will reconnect at some point in life. I would spend these last 2 weeks making special memories together. Communicate about your feelings and try to avoid getting in situations that make you resent eachother.