Dating : Unexpected crush dating someone else
I 35m, met a 30f online, we were both complaining about how expensive it was to live around here so I joked we should move in together before even meeting her. It was a joke, but she said it was a good idea but we couldn’t date. I didnt care and needed a new place to live so I agreed. Then I met her, and the more I saw her, the more I liked her. We flirted constantly she kept saying how hot I was and cuddled while watching movies. The same thing my exfiance and I did just without sex. I said I would just wait to see if anything would happen when we moved in. A week before the move she says she started dating someone and cuts me off completely. It was like being punched in the gut but I started to accept it. Then one day she says she is single again and starts flirting with me. The day after she said they made up and were back together. it feels worse this time. I realize this is totally my fault for reading things the wrong way. I just wanted to vent because I miss the way she made me feel.
Setting yourself up for failure.
2020 is only 6 months away, why are you still wasting time on her?
Damn man, that was a risky move. You had to have known the odds were low that things would have worked out between you two upon never meeting. Just think about how many first dates people go on without a second. I would keep pursuing the online dating so you don’t drive yourself mad. Best of luck to you.
Welcome to the future. A chick will have your cock in their mouth one minute and then tomorrow they’re engaged to someone they just met lol. Nothing makes sense anymore.
dude you are way too easily swayed by her. i get it. but dont let it happen. its tough, but let it go.
Start dating someone to get your mind off her.
That’s risky business right there. People say dont date in work, the same should apply to roommates as well. She is only lending on you when she doesn’t have anyone else. You are only a back up.
Stop letting her treat you like seconds by dating other people. If she’s single again dont let her come on to you. Keep her at a distance