Dating : Unpopular opinion: take back ex just to get by.. then leave her when I find someone else.
My ex strung me along for a year. We have a kid together. She’s super insecure, when I went for business travel she cheated because she constantly thinks I’m going to cheat.
I always tell her how hard it is for me to cheat even if I wanted to.
I don’t know why she likes me. Maybe she’s just a gold digger.
I have a huge problem with my race. I’m everything but white. That’s all that needs to be said about that.
I invested so much into her. So much of my life. I never had a chance to date when I was younger because of being a fucking Jehovah’s witness. The fucking damage. Shit. Same reason I stuck to one person from 22 to 28. Because of being a fucking nice guy and trying to be a perfectionist about it.
My ex text me now. Pictures of our kid and her. And she still throws jabs at me. « it’s not like you cared anyway »,,, she’s always said this. And it kills me. I sacrificed my freedom to see my family. A situation she out me into.
I can’t be with anyone else. My entire life has been destroyed. Financially. She threw away all my clothes, she wrecked my car. So much. And I’m just exhausted and I need sex. And I can’t wait.
I’m improving myself and everything, but I’m fucking old. And I can’t be with girls 20 to 22.
I just have to lie now.
Lie, cheat. All that. I just have to be an asshole. I need to look after myself.
I guess I’ll play into her bullshit, and I’ll visit her and maybe get back with her. But I’m cheating the first chance I get. And I’m leaving the minute k find someone else.
And I’m sick of the stupid fucking narrative that says I should be fucking fair. I got dealt a bad fucking hand.
I think there needs to be a Reddit for dating that doesn’t come with this « be nice & fair to everyone » bullshit. People need to get what they need. Even if it fucks over others.
I got fucked over.
All my patience, hardwork, character Building. Fucked over.
I hate women so much. They have so many options. I don’t get matches.
I don’t have anyone to take photos
I’m completely alone.
And I’m just angry.
I’ve always tried so hard to fit in and shit and be normal and try to socialize. It’s all fucked. I’m fucking people up now. Starting today
Why would you have a kid with her? You’re just as stupid as she is lol
why are you restricting yourself to girls age 20-22?
you can grow staying in a dead situation.. it didn’t work for a reason
Screw her.
You’re not going to learn anything by going back with her.
I understand the need for sex. As it just so happens, every woman in the world has a vagina so you’re ex is not the only option.
You don’t have to be nice, you don’t have to be fair. Life is neither. But you also don’t have to be a pessimistic ass.
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28 is not old. You just need practice (and probably better photos; pm me, I might be able to help with that).
Sounds like a match made in heaven.
Make sure the next guy she dates doesn’t abuse your kid. Be a man. Be a father.
/r/momsboyfriend