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Dating : Was this a good or bad date?

Dating : Was this a good or bad date?


To start off, this was my [18F] first date. Some guy [18M] I met off of Tinder who I recognized as a classmate from elementary, swiped right but didn’t really expect anything. We matched the next day and struck up a BARELY 2-min conversation before he asked for a date, I guess he doesn’t really like texting?? (will get more into later) On the day of the date, there was a farmer’s market and he said we’ll visit that. We did, it was quite small so I lightly teased him for it and suggested we go somewhere else to eat. He laughingly agreed. We went elsewhere and talked a lot, there were some awkward silences but I tried to fill them up by asking about him. He later suggested window shopping?????? Didn’t think too much of it and agreed. It was actually fun and we eventually just left to sit outside. We talked but it didn’t feel as though there was an obligation. He tried to hold my hand, and I did reciprocate. He also inched closer to me whenever he could. At one point, we barely talked, I was just lying on his arm and we just enjoyed each other’s comfort. Following that, I dropped him off to his bus and he kissed me on the cheek. When I got home, I texted him thanks for the date and asked for another soon. He replied that he had fun too and is looking forward to seeing me again. But he’s been on radio silence since then. Like I mentioned before, he doesn’t really text at all and hasn’t said anything since the date on Wednesday (July 3). I think I did make it obvious that I enjoyed his company but I am timid and anxious around guys I like, I did reciprocate his actions and did actively try to « touch » him casually at times. I overshared at times because silence honestly makes me feel uncomfortable. I know this isn’t a completely reliable representation of what the date was like but what does his behaviour mean? I’m SO confused and can’t tell whether he actually enjoyed it or felt annoyed by how awkward and timid I was at times. I really like his personality and he seems so kind, I just can’t tell if he feels the same. Am I just overthinking? Should I contact him first?

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