Dating : What are some fantastic tips that you can give someone in terms of dating/meeting someone new?

Dating : What are some fantastic tips that you can give someone in terms of dating/meeting someone new?

I’ll give you some of mine, and you can guys can add onto yours also! Just felt like this would be something we can all share in terms of ideas/tips!

1. Always assume the best. Be confident. If you’re unsure of yourself, chances are you’re going to act on those impulses/negativity.
2. Make good eye contact.
3. Don’t be afraid to position yourself near your interest.
4. Don’t let the conversation exceed too long, make him or her want MORE!
5. Work on improving yourself, whether it to be, reading, working out, following your passion, having a steady hobby.
6. Always have a good sense of fashion or look good. You don’t need expensive clothes, but adding a touch of nice affordable analog watch, jewelry, bracelets, or anything interesting can catch his or her attention.
7. Smile.
8. Give sincere compliments, stuff that generally no one else would hear. I like to tell woman, « I love how your hair matches and frames your face really well. » Don’t just say she’s beautiful. Women hear that all the time!
9. Any mistakes you made in the past, learn from them, and don’t let them happen again! Learn through trial and error!
10. Don’t get so stressed over the ‘soul mate,’ kind of thing. If he or she is someone you truly like and feel like will become something beautiful, take your time to see where it goes.

11)When you see an opportunity, it’s very important to jump on it. You might not get another shot.

12) Don’t put all your focus on one girl or one guy – have other options available. When time comes and you guys are something serious/boyfriend or girlfriend material, then yes of course you should cut off the other potential suitors. But don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

13) It’s okay to sometimes play hard to get, but don’t overdo it.

14) Have some kind of game plan. You will be more confident with the approach.

15) Ask open-ended questions – put focus on her/him. Never ask yes or no questions, it is boring, and deadens the conversation.

16) Read his/her body language. Non-verbal communication can tell you if their interested or not.

17) And last of all, meeting someone shouldn’t always be the end game. I see a lot of people who stress out about not having anyone in their life, instead of TRULY being happy! Woman or man will come into your life, but what you do with it before they do, is very important! Other people who can shine bright and become a ray of sunshine and warmth are generally people that others want to be surrounded with!

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If you guys disagree or feel like I’m being over the top, feel free to write in the comments.

I wish everyone the best of luck in the dating field!