Dating : What people stay attractive?
Hi, I’m 21 and haven’t ever had a real date, so I’m more on the theoretical side of things. I’m wondering what people still are attractive from 40 to 60 years old. I think the character side is fairly simple, most people keep their general traits and might expand on their weirdness, but otherwise just mature and go boring.
What I really can’t say is what happens to looks. I think in general tall people are less likely to end up round and wrinkled (if you get me), but what about the face. Any thoughts/resources?
*PS
I don’t want to reduce people to their outer appearance, I’m just keen on getting the big decisions right and to not regret them. Information can’t do much harm*
It’s not rocket science.
Most people prefer individuals who are positive, engaging, have their own ideas and who listen. People who are authentic, compassionate and care about others. Who are emotionally stable, experienced and honest.
Older people are much more likely to have those traits as a result of bring more experienced and having better overall self control.
It’s all about healthy living . It’s about things as simple as giving your body what it needs and staying away from what harms it . Exercise is vital. Live an active life. Do your best to stay away from processed foods. Being in the sun isn’t always bad but excessive sun is harmful. Everything in moderation and not excessive. Nutrition is easier now because whatever you need that isn’t available in your diet is available in supplements. It’s so much more about what you put inside your body that outside. Lotions and skin care products can be part of it though. Dry skin looks older. I’m 57 but often guessed in early 40s.
Genetics play a key role in all of this. Unfortunately you can’t tell if someone has good genetics just by looking at them.
Do you leave your house? Do you not have friends and family? Have you never seen or interacted with older people?
This is a really strange post. Also you’re getting way ahead of yourself.
21 and never been on a real date? I think the attractive people have already made their decision, and you don’t need to worry about it anymore.