Dating : Which dating app is best for getting actual dates?
I’ve had Tinder for years. I get like a Match every few days or so and they barely respond. I’ve even got desperate and got Tinder Gold. Still rarely get matches. Bumble is even worse. I’d get a match a month or so.
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I am pretty attractive, and have a good job, place, etc. I’m starting to think that these apps only work for girls. From what i’ve seen, a lot of them just say they’re bored and want attention/followers. Hard to find someone who wants to actually date. Ive heard of other apps like Hinge and POF. Which app do you find best?
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Tl;Dr – Which dating app is best for getting actual dates?
The key is having a vagina. I wish I was joking, lol.
Which city do you live in? Tinder is pretty popular for getting actual dates/ hookups in NYC
Tinder does work for getting actual dates (I’m a guy). The key is balance. Too aggressive and she’ll get scared off. Too passive and she’ll get bored and move on.
I have said vagina, I get a ton of matches. I have normal/slightly sexy pics and 95% of the messages I get are coy sexual propositions. I’ve gone on one real date. And it ended in a sexual advance that wasn’t what I wanted. Yikes. Maybe I’m just vetting them wrong.
Tinder is the worst for dates. Hinge is better. All in all it seems girls just want the validation and to waste time, never want to commit to meet.
Ive had more dates on hinge then anything else, had more people just want hookups on tinder. Also I’ve been more open to date a lot of guys not based on looks as I would have on tinder, not saying that would be your problem but it opens the ability to be natural and has a lot of icebreakers that helps you get to know the person a little better.
Too bad you’re in Atlanta, I probably would have dated you OP 😉
Don’t lose hope, the thing is you might be attractive in real life but your pictures on Tinder might be off? Guys with a regular job and an only semi-attractive face get heaps of matches when they have nice pictures over here (I’m from Germany BTW) …
You are probably not attractive enough to be successful at online dating