Dating : Women friend opened up and told me the reason i’m single and women reject me is because i have feminine eyes. What now?
does this mean i’m basically fu***d?
what are my options?
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does this mean i’m basically fu***d?
what are my options?
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Your eyes are fine, your attitude is putrid according to your post history. I think your just trying to blame something you can’t help (eye/baldness/paleness) because you don’t want to work on thing you actually should be working on. Try therapy.
I would bet you begged and begged this woman to tell you *something* and saying, « feminine eyes » was just easier than a two hour conversation about your attitude problem she can’t fix and it seems apparent you don’t want to fix. You seem to desperately seek a reason you *can’t* date so you can blame other people for your problems.
Just get new eyes lmao
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so is there something i can do or just forget about dating altogether and move on with my life?
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i dont know what feminine eyes mean maybe it’another way of saying that i look homosexual?
You have to remember that women communicate emotionally, so it is just a emotional response you created in her,…it is not *facts, numbers & logic*.
It would have to be a matter of how you carry yourself (body language, facial expressions, etc.). That is all just learned behavor and can be altered with some effort. A huge number of guys who grew up in a home full of sisters, or a single parent home (with the mother) can have this problem. It is very common. There is a book out there that may help with that,…actually tons of them I expect,…but I would just recommend « How to be a 3% Man ». It covers a broad spectrum of stuff. The author also has a YouTube channel and his material from a year or more ago is pretty good, although he rambles a lot in the newer material. But in any case there’s probably a gazillion YouTube videos out there for learning a more masculine body language.
I have had to do it myself. I didn’t come across feminine, but I did come across very timid. Once I got a handle on that (a couple years of work) it even made a big difference at work, when I meet strangers, etc. I’ve even noticed that if I pass someone who looks like they came from a biker bar I now get respectful nods and « looks » rather than suspicious glares like I used to get. It has effected all parts of my life.
Start by changing your username to something not derogatory.
Tell your friend, ‘fuck you’! Ha! Dating is a numbers game. Get comfortable with rejection and talk to a lot of girls and ask them out! You’ll get an idea of your ratio. I’m like 1/15, some guys are less or more but everyone has a ratio!! There’s never one reason girls reject a guy. It’s not like they all have a meeting about you. Just be yourself!!
Witht this pic you look like a younger version of « The Rock ». How in the world could there be anything wrong with that?
[https://imgur.com/0lut3d3](https://imgur.com/0lut3d3)
You’ve got to not worry about things you can’t change and I’ll bet there are plenty of women out there who would appreciate your eyes. You likely need to be a bit more forward when it comes to dating so that you can find those women.
An unusual characteristic like your eyes can be an asset because some women will really like it while some may hate it, and being polarizing is generally better than being average and uninteresting.
WTF?? I checked your pics. You look fine and normal. Forget that friend.
If I (as a bi guy) saw you in a bar, I would say that you’re probably gay (snooped on your profile).
I honestly have no idea how you “improve” yourself. It’s only a problem if you make it a problem. Own it!
Maybe. U can always get it taken care of.
Look for a girl with jacked up teeth or something. Just don’t make babies.
Based on comments read, the problem is in your head.
You’re really a very nice looking man. This is coming from a straight woman, by the way. I feel like you have kind eyes. Hell, if I was single I probably would be interested! That is a weird, unkind comment on your friends part.
Don’t listen to women for dating advice or reasons why women may reject you. They don’t know what they’re talking about from men’s perspective.