Dating : Would you cancel a date due to a thunderstorm?
I’ve been on four dates with a guy I met online. We’ve been intimate each time we hung out. Due to where we live with the pandemic, everything has been closed each date we’ve had so all of our dates so far have been outdoor activities, followed by just watching movies/hanging out at his house/hooking up. Some things however have recently opened up again (outdoor patios). He expressed to me recently that the next date we go on, he wants it to be a real date since all our dates so far have been so casual. He said he wanted to take me to a fancy patio and get food/drinks. However, the weather tomorrow (when our date is planned) is 90% chance of severe thunderstorms all day. I also would have to drive an hour to get to him. I’ve been really busy lately so the idea of having a day off to myself to stay in my pjs all day alone is tempting since I can’t really do much of anything anyways
I messaged him saying I’m still free tomorrow but if he wants to reschedule I would be completely fine with that so we can have a real date finally. But now I’m thinking I should just cancel to save myself from driving an hour to have a date that will completely consist of us just being in his apartment.
Would you be offended if someone cancelled on you the day before due to weather alone?
Doesn’t seem like you are into this guy honestly.
I wouldnt personally unless it’s primeraly outside
Cancel the date due to weather not so much an issue. I get it nobody wants to be trapped in a snowstorm or downpour rain.
Wtaf
I wouldn’t care… But I’m not him. Just do it and if he doesn’t understand, he isn’t the one for you.
If it’s really bad outside yes if not then no
Hmm sounds like a patio date would be difficult in thunderstorms! I would cancel and offer days that I’m free to reschedule.
Context is key. If you specify that you want to reschedule because of the storms that seems reasonable. Just canceling would give me a bad vibe though
Rescheduling for that reason would be fine. Straight up cancelling always feels different