Dating : How should I go about asking for a second meet up?
I finally asked out a girl I’ve been interested in for lunch. Beforehand, we only ever talked a small amount at mutual friends events so I was really grateful she agreed to hang out.
I’d say the lunch went pretty well, good laughs and banter; although I was a unsure whether or not to flirt since this was pretty much the first time we have properly talked together.
Now the dilemma I’m facing is whether I should ask her to ‘hang out again’ or to ‘go on a date’? I feel that if I were to ask her on a DATE that it might sound a bit rush-ie or freak her out, but gets across my interest?. Btw I’d probably ask her to mini-golf.
Any advice would be appreciated, I’m not a very experienced when it comes to dating.
Use the format “I’m free for X on Y”.
Such as “I’m free for drinks on Tuesday”.
If she wants to see you and isn’t free then, she’ll tell you when she is free.
For the love of God, do not ask her when she is free. That’s putting the ball in her side of the court, which isn’t attractive.
Lead.