Dating : Some weird shit is going on lol
Okay so weve been dating for a bit now. Like 7 dates+. At first she would text me with soo many emojis and she would call me so many flirty words. Like handsome, gallant, very cute, hot etc.
She would also put like 😍😘 or ❤😘
Nowww as time has passed. (1-2 months)
She still texts me everyday, puts less emojis, hasnt flirted with me in a while, sounds dryer in text. Yett, we are making the most moves in real life now. Today for example, i sent her a pic of me goofy with a beard im growing. She said « heyyyy and whats up with that beard? », « You look cuter without it », « it doesnt that bad but you look cuter without it », idk thats just what i think. »
Idk it feels different. Like the vibe of the texts are different. We text everyday. Idk what i should do.
Maby skip texting and hang out with her more in real life or call her sometimes cause texting gets old real fast.
Just keep it exciting and fresh¡
You are doing great man ¡¡¡
Send her a pic of your penis. It’s the only way
I read somewhere that our brains have only a limited amount of energy that we can spend on socialising with other people, and texting to our brains is in a way kinda the same as face-to-face socialising. So my interpretation is that if you’re spending brain energy while hanging out, there’s going to be less energy to spend on texting, and vice versa. Anyway, imo, I think you should text her less. Sometimes people are busy or don’t feel like texting which is understandable. If she still likes to hang out with you, that means she enjoys your company so you got nothing to worry about.
IMO, I think maybe dial back the texting. Things recently ended between me and a guy I met from hinge after talking for about a month. We texted everyday as well and I feel like that caused a little burnout and him losing interest.
So I may be projecting when I say that you should dial back the texting but I feel like it’a good to text less anyways. I personally prefer phone calls because you can connect more that way.