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Dating : The simplest rule I use when I want to start dating.

Dating : The simplest rule I use when I want to start dating.


I always ask myself, “would I date me?”. If the answer is no then you probably shouldn’t be looking to date. Work on yourself first and get yourself into a state to where if you would date yourself then your ready to start looking. I know it sounds kinda weird but trust me it has helped me immensely.

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  1. Is this a « thing » now? I would advise against it. Seriously.

    I would think that the women we date have different tastes than we have so what you think is annoying about yourself, someone my really be fond of it.

    Just be yourself and stop overthinking. I understand this advice comes from a good place, but it may open a can of worms… like plastic surgery for a start.

    Love you for who you are and don’t force yourself into someone you are not

  2. I hear you completely. Sure I would love to date and marry a women with a model/near-model body, but it would be selfish to think they would date the 250 lb sloth I was a year ago. I’m down to 231 now, driven by a desire to be the best me I can be just like how you should try to be the best you you could be.

  3. Hell yea I would! My ideal partner would be the male equivalent of me! does it make me sound like a narcissist?? sureeee but yes, I do think I am that great lol

  4. Ooo I would date me!! In a way I already do… I buy myself gifts, I get off when I need to or want to, I sleep in, and no children are involved! Yay!

  5. Yes!!! I do that to. What can you offer and if you can’t think of anything then why would someone that got thing going for them want to be with you? Unless you find someone that need to fill a bigger hole then what you have.

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