Dating : (25M) I’ve been out of the dating sceen awhile and was having some good development with someone I thought.

Dating : (25M) I’ve been out of the dating sceen awhile and was having some good development with someone I thought.

There are a couple of reasons why I haven’t been dating around because personally I really hate the hookup mentality. I’m just tired of investing in potential partners is all till I met this girl (28F). Yeah, I do work with her, but in general I keep to myself while I play and express music on my breaks so most everyone knows of me. I gave my number to her in December and just recently about the start of June we started to have a lot of positive connections. This lead to a lot of positive connections and possible deepening relations. The little things like taking our breaks together and getting closer in a sense. Even going as far as both agreeing to take things slowly. I know she seems really career focused right now focusing on advancing her goals. This lead to a big and noticeable distance in all aspects, I may have messaged her too much, but she made clear and said she’s not ready for anything in the sense of relationships due to her exams and family claims. Over text, she explained herself instead of when we closed one night. I said I’d wait the few weeks or whatever, but in reality I feel as I really shouldn’t wait around…

To me, it feels like everything was being really good going forward the connection was there, the interest was there, and it kinda left me feeling like I was used to boost her confidence just kinda leaving me to figure out something I did wrong. Just trying to figure out if its worth waiting for someone who wouldn’t make the time for me if I’d make the time for them.