Dating : A kind gesture turned into a date.
Ladies — being open and present is your best asset.
I was at a street fair/festival this afternoon. Mind you, I’ve never been in this city and I’m here for several days for work. I wanted to check out the fair. Very crowded and hot. I was standing at a pub table watching the next band set up their equipment. Just hanging out and people watching.
I noticed a man in front of me who looked appealing. He seemed alone, so I got his attention and asked if he was solo. He was, so I invited him to post up and share my table (a place to set his beer, etc).
We had a very nice chat and he asked me out to dinner. Simple as that.
We exchanged numbers and have plans for him to take me to dinner later or tomorrow night (depends on my work schedule).
He gave me his full name and place of employment (so I can look him up and make sure he’s not a creep — his suggestion).
All because I was open and saw an opportunity to make a connection.
He thinks I’m cute, too. 😊
There are rare occasions where things just flow and we don’t need the mind games we get into. You must be a mature and confident person. We’ll done. Wish you all the best.
This is the best way to get a first date, makes it way less awkward when you meet again. Good luck
You seem like a mature person. Well done. Out of curiosity, how did you get his attention ?
And what did you chat about ? Was it worth him giving you his full name or you didn’t care about that part ?
Hope you two have fun
That’s sweet.
Girls could take a page out of your book and not let guys do all the work. Sad but true.
Nice! Wish more women were like you.
Hope it turns out well for you and that guy! 🙂
All the best
It worked because you approached him. Strange men, approaching unaccompanied women is almost unheard of.
Even if most of us wanted to approach a woman at a bar, it’s mostly frowned upon by society given the myriad of horror stories most of us have been told.
I love stories like this where it just happens. Congrats.
If only I was this lucky.
Awww I’m very happy for you. More women should follow your lead hahaha!
Best of luck and enjoy!
Cheers
But if a man who you didn’t find attractive approached you in exactly the same fashion, you would have found it « creepy ».
Wish you the best girl!
I look like a young adult. And when I am interested in any guy, they seem generous and kind but in a ‘you are way younger’ way.
Sad life. 🙁
Sounds like everything went with ease. Wish you all the best
This is adorable