Dating : Advice? Keep dating or shift to friendship?
My past relationships were with men that I met in real life and they developed over time. I’m fairly new to online dating, and I find the pace of it unnatural.
I’ve been on two dates with a lovely guy and we’ve definitely clicked intellectually. But I don’t feel a physical attraction. I feel like two dates is not enough time to build that kind of spark. I get along well with him, I feel like I can be myself around him too. But the idea of him kissing me freaked me out because I don’t know him very well yet.
He’d like to meet again. I want to get to know him more, but at this point I’m not sure if I see him as a romantic prospect. But I also wonder if I don’t know him well enough to make that call?
Is it worth being upfront with him about my uncertainty/put friendship on the table, or should I wait until after a third date to decide?
Give it time because it’s hard to fall for a complete stranger.