Dating : Any tips on my dating life?
I don’t know what to do anymore I’m 20 years old almost 21. And I’ve been single for so long. I can’t manage to get a guy to like me at all. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, this is so frustrating I joined bumble maybe about 3 weeks ago. I had the newbie push so I had about 30 plus matches until I put on my profile I wasn’t looking for a hookup. Then I started getting at least one a day. I finally went on a date with one of my matches and he basically ghosted me right after the date. This was my biggest fear being ghosted after meeting someone online because this has happened to me before but when I went online to make friends on my university Facebook page for freshmen I met a couple people on there and then when I met them in person they ghosted me. Everyone’s saying I’ll find someone in person but I’m getting older and still hasn’t happened yet and it doesn’t help hearing my dad every single day say “when are you gonna get a boyfriend?” As if it’s my fault I don’t have one. Maybe you just have an ugly daughter dad. My younger sister on the other hand she’s 18 when she joined bumble the first guy she met she dated for about 2 months before she called it off and then she joined tinder in May and she’s been dating the guy she met on there ever since. Even without these dating sites my sister gets approached regardless me on the other hand nobody approaches me or wants to get to know me. What should I do?
Confidence. They can smell it on you. Just relax and stop worrying if they like you and use the date to see if you even like them. Let them get to know you. Don’t try to say the right things to get them to like you. And stop comparing yourself to your sister. I have one too and I know it’s hard. Honestly though she probably has better luck because she goes into it with much less anxiety or care. Also you’re super young and have plenty of time to find someone. Don’t look at the end game of finding the one and try to just have fun in the moment
personality, confidence and looks. enhance all 3 of those.
Get more attractive, get fit if you dont are now. Guaranteed more guys will like you, and then you will have a bigger pool to pick from.