Dating : Been a bit of a fck boy, maybe I need to change my ways. Can anyone relate?
My fck boy ways ruined it with a women I really liked and wanted to have a relationship with. Theres a couple reasons why I turned out this way.
1) always had the mindset that if you focus on your career then other things will fall into place including women
2) I used to hang out with couple of friends who were players with women. I wasn’t really good with women back then so adopted their mindset, style, atittude towards women.
3) I was always a bit of a cold person to begin with but after being in a couple heart breaks makes you a bit more callous.
4) alot of women I don’t really want to invest in a relationship with. I am more selective with who I want a relationship with than who I just want to hook up with.
I actually haven’t been on a date in a long time. I usually meet with women and just invite them over to my place and we just end up hooking up first time meeting. There was this one girl who I really like and she invited me over to her place. I pushed it a little too far for what she was comfortable with and that was that. Idk I really liked her. I still think about her from time to time.
Now I am thinking about asking girls on date and not try to hook up first day. However I don’t wanna waste my time if I am not interested in having a relationship with a girl in the first place and just want to have fun. I don’t know. I am still on the fence about it because I don’t want to be like some of my friends who spend lots of money with a girl taking them out on dates with nothing in return and just end up being rejected/ghosted. Can any guys relate?
When i was young i was the type that almost pulled a perfekt week and at some point it got out of hand and I was doing 3 girls who did not knew i fucked Them all in a 2 hour span. In my apartment.
Later i got the burn from it and got in contact with all the girls i could get a hold of and Said sorry. For what i did
Just be honest about your intentions. If you don’t see any future with someone, then tell them. If you do, then tell them.
Essentially, you need to be showing the type of character that women can trust. So say what you mean and put true actions behind it.