Dating : Bf kisses me a lot in front of his bro
Need a male perspective on it. Is this something sus I should know about?
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Need a male perspective on it. Is this something sus I should know about?
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maybe hes trying to flex on him. Like look i have someone
Yes, it seems that your boyfriend is a human trafficker.
I always kiss my girl. Not as intense if my sister is around. I love her and is not ashamed of my love.
It has nothing with showing of to do.
Does he do it more than when you’re not around his bro? Then it’s a little weird and something you could look into. Otherwise there’s nothing there
Depends on the guy.
I’ve had bfs who show off when other people are around, and I’ve had bfs who consider our physical affection to be more private and not something to “discuss” with other people, ie; putting on a show.
Neither is wrong, if his priorities are in order.
It’s using affection as a tool that’s bad.
Is he displaying that affection because he’s proud of you and your relationship, and wants to “shout it from the rooftops?” And you also enjoy it?
If yes, great.
If he’s using that affection in spite of you not enjoying it – not great. Or if he’s doing it as a display of dominance (grabbing your body in inappropriate ways or moments) or to show you off like a trophy – not great.
Keeping affection private can be sweet, but again, if both of you prioritize that, great! If he uses the excuse of “privacy” to ignore you around his friends or yours – not great. If he’s uses ownership (that’s mine and no one else can see how it’s used) as a reason – not great. If he wants to keep your interaction more of a “secret” than simple privacy would appear – not great, is he trying to maintain an air of being single?
See, there are always reasons to ask about perspectives. Same actions, different motivations; different results.
I fucking hate that. My friends are in relationship with each and I have to admit, I am more close to the girl, then my bro. But whenever I walk around them, he tries to kiss her intentionally and akwardly looks at me. I am already tired to be a third-wheel everytime but this literally annoys me. I have thus stopped hanging out with them when they are together becuase they dont do that naturally
Hi
Nope, no flags here.
The way I see it? Could mean three things.
• It’s normal. If the frequency and intensity are the same as if his bro is not there, then it just means he loves you and is unashamed.
• It’s prideful. « Look what I have, look what I can do. Loser. »
• It’s insecurity. He thinks he will lose you to his bro and feels the need to overtly and obviously « claim » you.
If it bothers you, privately and politely tell him to knock it off because you feel some kinda way about it. If it doesn’t, then enjoy it. If whether it bothers you or if you feel neutral about it depends on his intentions, then ask him outright why he does that and listen to his words, not any subtext you might think is there.
There’s probably some dick measuring going on. I remember when I had my first girlfriend when I was 17. When we would hang with friends I would kiss her in front of our friends.
Being 23 and looking back, it was probably a little uncomfortable for others. Now I wouldn’t do that. I would just enjoy the time spent together until we were alone and we could kiss and such.
Could be marking his “territory” so to speak. Could just be that he’s comfortable around his bro and affectionate toward you. Are you uncomfortable with it? If so, you should definitely let him know l!
My boyfriend is physically and verbally affectionate towards me no matter who is around lol he has no filter and he loves me so he will grab my butt, hug and kiss me and tell me I’m sexy as fuck whenever or whoever is around. For him it’s just normal because he does that even when we are alone, it’s just his love language – definitely not a flex or insecurity for him.