Dating : How should I interpret her response?
I’m interested in a girl, but we’ve only gone on one date so far. We’ve continued chatting after the first date and things are going well.
Her birthday is coming up, and as a gift idea I thought I would get a film that she wants to watch, a small and cheap gift nothing too crazy. I asked her quite blatantly whether she owned the film already and what she would think if it was gifted to her.
Her reply was along the lines of « that’d be super sweet but Im happy without any presents <3 »
Does this mean I should give her the gift or not? Am I just overanalysing? Her response was quite paradoxical when I read it.
Any advice would be appreciated
Ok this is the plan. Pretend you bought her nothing. But by a small gift. Less then 10.00 but put some real thought into it. Then when you hang out and the date is going to end. Give her the gift and say how could I not forget it. This will create the emotional spike u want. Remember she feel let down with no gift. Then she get an unexpected rush when there is one.
She wants the gift but is trying not to pressure you into buying it. She wants you to buy it because you want to, not because you feel obligated to. Definitely buy it.