Dating : Both 18 : Talking stage during lockdown, no idea what’s going on anymore
So we are from the same uni and started talking through IG mid April, while our country is in constant lockdown (getting worse each day) We chat like everyday on everywhere.
Then we have talked about meeting in campus when he’s having physical exams and if i ever go to campus from my online classes. However, that never happened due to the situation and we have always been hoping it to get better but it’s just not happening.
So around mid June he finished his exams and I was going to finish my sem, but this was when i feel like we’re losing the connection because he’s spending less time on his phone and was recovering from a burn out. AND i completely understand he (an introvert) needs space so I didn’t bother him too.
But this soon leads to days till now where he no longer tell me what’s going on in his life (although i understand that there’s nothing much and we are all doing the same thing over and over again still to being stuck at home). He no longer reply to my snaps like how he used to with texts and selfies. He no longer send me tiktoks like he used to everyday. And we said to stream movies tgt when im on my hols (which is now) but it didn’t happen yet, and i dont think it’s going to. Basically he no longer initiates much.
The only thing going good between us is that he still keep the streak going (snaps without text) and mininal replies to my stories and all. And his energy is still there through texts. Last week he still choosed the white heart filter when he sent a snap but that was it till tdy.
I’m so confused??? Like we were rly hitting it off with so many similarities and common values, interests, and i know it’s kinda cringy as i’m typing this but we do have inside jokes and nicknames too. And tbh i think he’s the first person ive ever met that’s my ideal type.
So yes I can tell he’s not interested anymore but i was thinking he could have straight off tell me that? On the other hand, I’m not sure why my intuition tells me that he has no idea what to do since we can’t meet and know each other better (no one knows when our lockdown is going to end), or he needs time for himself to think things through so this connection is on hold.
And I did not initiate anything throughout this weird period since he’s like that. Was thinking if I’m wrong for this, is he just trying to see if I’ll initiate since he mostly does it last time?
I have been telling myself to not get attach since the start but yeah I would just like some advices and thoughts from yall.
