Dating : Date from 3 months ago popped back up.
I actually liked this guy but he sent a polite goodbye text after our first date.
He reaches out, asks how things are and if I’m dating anyone. When I say no he asks me to come over. Late night. On a Saturday.
I offer a date on another day and he says he isn’t in a date mood lately, just could use the company. I say I’m not looking for any hookups or casual atm and he says no one said it needed to be a hookup or casual.
Okay. Just left it alone. I’m pretty sure he just got dumped and was looking to see if I was gonna bite. Sigh.
> Late night. On a Saturday.
> no one said it needed to be a hookup or casual.
Either a liar or born yesterday.
Ugh that’s annoying, I’m sorry that happened to you. But good for you for standing your ground!
Good move! You shouldn’t be a back up option.
Unfortunately yeah that’s what it sounds like it’s a serious dick move trying to make you a rebound girl if that’s his attitude I see why he’s single I think you dodged a bullet on that one
Yep. He was just horny and you’re just one of several girls he invited over. Bet
Yep you saw that red flag. Good for you.
This is what men do these days. If a guy starts to ghost, the best thing to do is completely block him from text and all social media, because 99% of the time he WILL come back and waste even more of your time
Lol it’s a hookup request/ please see through this crap.
Good on you. If you don’t want to be a back up option or someone he comes to when he’s feeling lonely and looking for a hook up, then don’t be. You’ve owned this situation, well done.
Haha, odds are he was drunk and/or high and wanted to fuck..
Good on you for seeing through his BS.
Out of curiosity, how did it end before? Ghosting? Respectful, “I met someone else…”
Yuck.
Good for you for having boundaries!
Glad you didn’t take the bait. That’s a bush league move on his part
Lol I’ve been that guy before
Classic « Breadcrumbing » – good for you for seeing through it.
I’m glad your intuition kicked in. He was totally looking for a hookup.
LOL what a loser.