Dating : Dating with insecurities
I go to therapy and work on these feelings with my therapists, But—dating with insecurities and self-esteem issues is SO HARD. I get anxiety over things that I wish i wasn’t anxious about. I’m convinced i’m going to be dumped at any minute—i don’t know how i’ve managed to project self-confidence to this man but I am faking it until I make it. I wish i was a more self-assured person. I try to give myself some kindness and acknowledge that the environment i grew up in molded me into this insecure mess with attachment issues, but I wish I could wake up with the confidence that i’d like to have.
As a guy. Insecurities are a sign I should be eliminating myself from dating altogether. At this point I would rather learn to find nobody attractive and to lose all desire for any kind of companionship.
I feel this 200% friend. Like everything is a person and you’re terrified they’d leave, right?
Like Aporoid says. You’re not alone. I’m here too feeling the same.❤