Dating : Do most guys want fwb/ons in early 20s?
I’m curious. Do many girls also prefer this?
I’ve been talking to various guys on tinder. None of them seemed to be interested in serious relationship. I think it’s also because i’m talking to lots of foreigners who’s living in my country, but still.
Especially if they are very good looking, fit..none of them wanted relationships lol
Yeah, because they’re still extremely young and good looking, they all have options thanks to apps like Tinder.
So I’m early 40s and still like friends w benefits. I can rarely find women that are looking for relationships for some reason so I usually just mention being FWB’s. I think transitioning to a relationship is easier after you are compatible friends wise and sexually. But I haven’t been able to make that transition so far just want to find someone where the relationship has a chance if lasting for awhile
Good looking people do have options.
21M, I’d rather be interested in building a long term relationship then a casual hookup.
21M, ended ltr some months ago, staying single hopefully for a while.
Just be someone they can’t let go
We can use the food analogy here. Imagine you’re at a buffet. Do you pick one food and just have that one food the entire time you’re at the buffet? Or do you try a little bit of 15 different foods? If you have the options, you probably try 15 different foods. Good looking people are at a buffet and they are just getting a spoonful of all the different foods. Eventually they may pick a favorite, but there are a lot of different foods to try.
Now imagine you can’t afford a buffet, and can barely afford food. You would probably be grateful for that one single food that the people at the buffet take for granted.
This is kind of like dating. The people with more options will usually explore those options. They don’t always, and sometimes people just know what they want, but I don’t blame people for trying all the foods at the buffet.