Dating : Do you think couples who constantly post about their relationship aren’t that happy together?
Obviously I am not talking about people who post from time to time, like every few weeks or months. But to give you an example, there is this person that basically half the time I click on their story their partner is tagged in there. Sometimes it’s even cringy as they post about how much they love each other and many emojis. And that erson posts lots of stories. They can have 3 stories in a row that day just about their relationship.
I personally think like 2 people who are happy together don’t feel the need to constantly show everyone how much they love each other and how happy they are together. It’s like they have something to prove when they constantly post about it. And don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against couple posts, it’s just that it’s cringy and weird when people post too much about it in my opinion.
Depend… doesnt hurt to post couple pics. But if they constant have to tell the wolrd they love each other, it’s insecurity.
I think it depends on the situation. Does the person post a lot about everything anyways?! If so it’s probably healthy. Does it seem out of character and a bit showoff-ish? Then maybe there is more going on behind the scenes that we think.
But at the end of the day we will have NO IDEA what goes on behind closed doors.
I think it depends how you do it.
I’ve found that couples who flaunt, show off or try to 1 up their relationships (e.g. try to talk about how they do things differently and how it’s so much better than how you do it) tend to have the most issues. Especially when they often post vague emotional posts about « sticking together ». I think the idea behind it is that posting or gathering evidence about your relationship helps to solidify in your head that you love this person and your relationship is good even if you’re making it up- reaffirming what you believe.
I think couples who show having fun together, talking about serious relationship topics that may affec them or others (e.g. racism faced in interracial relationships) or post about the weird things in relationships that are relatable, are usually the ones who have a stable relationship but like to be open and talk about this stuff. They arent flaunting it, more just having fun.
some are some are not. duh.