Dating : Does a kiss on a date mean anything specific?
We kissed on a first date. We would probably have sex, if I weren’t reluctant. I assumed that it would have been a one night stand if we did it.
Recently he asked me for a second date. What should I expect? Would it be cheating if I continued to chat with other guys? I guess not, because we are not in any kind of relationship..
I sincerely hope that people agree explicitly when they start a relationship. I don’t want to cause any trouble.
I might want to try casual sex in the future. Would wearing a condom be safe enough? I’m not ready for relationships, but would like have fun in the meantime. I’d like to approach this as sensibly as possible.
Definitely make your intentions clear before having sex. I know it might sound awkward or like it would « kill the mood » but women have to deal with questioning a guys true intentions all the time especially in the hookup scene, so it will definitely go a long way to say that because it shows emotional intelligence and maturity on your part.
To clarify: I don’t want to start a relationship now because I’m not emotionally ready. I would be a shitty (possibly selfish) partner, who would not offer good enough emotional support. I will start a relationship when I know what exactly I want and when I find someone I care about. Don’t want to have a half-ass, superficial relationship.
In the meantime, I might try casual sex, to see how it feels. I’ve had sex before, just not that kind. It would help me figure out what I like and how to act in future relationships.