Dating : Does he want to be FWB or not?
I was talking to this guy for months. Nothing special, just sending memes back and forth. I assumed it was just platonic (haha yeah right) but one night we got to talking and had this great idea of being fwb. Next day rolls around, we figured that it might be a bad idea because we work together (haha yeah right). We continue to send memes, I date someone else. He knows of him and gives me space. Second guy and I don’t work out, I go through some heartache so I ask him for some meaningless sex because I’m an emotional wreck and need that validation from someone. He asks me why I changed my mind about hooking up with him, but I don’t tell him. Why should I? Anyways, we do the deed. We still talk occasionally, we work together as normal. He sends me nudes (cool cool cool, I see where this is going) I bring up the whole friends with benefits thing again because that arrangement sounds pretty sweet. He responds with, “why are you being pushy? it’s not like you’re going anywhere”
Like what the fuck does that mean!? Like what?? You’re the one trying to rile me up with nudes, I’m just trying to expedite this process. Does anyone agree that he’s being weird?
He’s just not that into you.
I guess he’s weirded out that you even need to press for an official « FWB » thing. You sound like you’re just going to have sex on occasion.
Sounds like gym rat drama.
It means hes playing the same game you are (lol yeah right) !
He sounds like a dumbass, be careful