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Nope you did not.
You were both careless having unprotected sex without STD results. The cronological order is: meet, have protected sex, STD panel, STD-free results, unprotected sex.
You can also have a stable relationship with protected sex, if you distrust your partner or if you like using condoms for their contraceptive properties.
Besides that, nothing wrong in the grey text. Still funny for its length and your reply.
I think she’s right actually. She pointed out the fact that you didn’t even bother to use a condom and if that were me in her situation it would set off alarm bells as to how safe you truly are. There are tons of places you can go where an STI text shouldn’t cost you much- Planned Parenthood mainly comes to mind- and if there was an expectation that you’d be having frequent sex only with each other it’s not an unreasonable thing to ask.
I mean it’s responsible to ask to see test results before you have unprotected sex but the 100 messages with no replies from you seems crazy haha but they may have had bad experiences
Also getting tested after sex is normal too but usually people will wait like a week for any STIs to settle in and not give false positives.
Also asking how many people someone has had sex with is a little irrelevant (could be an indication of slut shaming) it may just be better to ask when’s the last time they had a full panel STD test!
Should not have asked her number. She’s getting defensive. Asking to test first is fine. However she’s got a cheap phone that sends a million little messages which drives me insane so maybe you’re better off.
Can’t really say since there’s part of the conversation hidden from us between image 5 and 6.
She doesn’t need to be freaking out like this. She’s somewhat right that you should have offered to use a condom but it’s also her responsibility to stop and ask for you to use one. What you said comes off as pretty judgemental especially the « Do I need to be worried about how many sexual partners you’ve had » part.