Dating : Ex asked me for old photos of us
Me (20M)and my EX(20F) broke up about 9 months ago because of the stress from Uni and we haven’t talked since. It was a rough breakup and despite her initiating it she said she still cares about me, that I will always be her first love and that we would meet again one day.
I have finally been able to move on when unexpectedly she texts me at 1 am a couple of days ago asking if I can send her some old photos of us from when we were dating. I send them through to her, and she starts asking me lots of questions about how I’m doing and if I have a new GF while also bringing up fun things we did in the past and reminiscing.
Part of me is happy that we can be friendly while part of me misses her in a way that I haven’t in months. I don’t understand why she would want them when she broke up with me and why she would be so interested about what I’m up too now after so long? Does she miss me?
I would stay away from this situation. If the breakup happened once it could happen again. I had a ex that did similarly to me and it ended up being like a yoyo for months which destroyed my self esteem at the time, trust me when I say that the payoff is not worth the risk about 70% of the time.
She’s looking to try again.
Dont fall for that shit
>I have finally been able to move on when unexpectedly she texts me
Life does this to us every time. It’s the great test.
Also, when women reach out to you like this, it’s because they want to see you. Take it for however you see fit.
Stay away from that man, it’s not going to end up any better. Your mind plays games on you as you reminisce.
Shes just checking in bro move on do better work on yourself
Either looking to reconnect or looking for photos for tinder that you’re gonna get cropped out of.
She broke up with you. Do not even talk to her – you’ll get your heart broken again. Don’t even entertain the idea of getting back with her.
Ask her to go out to drink a coffee ! You will see if she still think about you as her BF
Shoulda told her them photos where deleted 9 months ago
She hurt you once, she will hurt you again. If you’re okay with that, go ahead and talk to her and try again if you want.
Yea she does, seems like she still thinks about you. What do you think of being friends again? Start things over and see
If I were you, I’d make an appointment for a coffee with her. You would talk to each other and explain everything. But if she wanted to start all over again, you’d already have some grounds to try. Remember, however, that if she broke up once it could happen again, but the whole decision is entirely yours. Good luck
I’m sorry you’re going through this OP but you have to stop. People who do this are just seriously disgusting to me. She broke up with you and knows she hurt you, then she asks for pictures of you together? Wtf she probably already had pictures, she’s just coming up with an excuse to message you. Just to bring up all those emotions again, get your hopes up, talking about old times, just so she can plunge the dagger in your heart again.
She broke up with you for a reason, and I bet now she’s thinking about how good she had it and is missing those times. She needs something from you, or just your attention to feel validated. Block her.
If she initiated, I would suggest don’t talk to her if you want to move on. If you think you still have a chance with her and are 100 percent sure on that then only talk to her
You should send it to her bc that can make I come back to you tho
I strongly believe she still thinks about you…i mean that explains the fact where she texted you at 1 in the morning….maybe u both could give it a try once again…
She misses you and the perks and attention you offer. This is good, but can also be bad. She may be testing the waters merely for validation “does he still want me? lol thought so…” or she legitimately wants to give things another chance. Maybe she just wants you for the sex. I’d keep my guard up. Consider that chances ate very, very high (like 95-99% certain) things will end similarly to last time. And ask yourself if you’re okay with that. If you just want to get some casual sex, make sure you’ve established that boundary for yourself, or if you decide you’d rather not see her at all, or only as a friend – stick to that! *I see this as a great opportunity to become confused and hurt again.* But you’re young at least, you got some time to wish away.
Actually, my most recent relationship was with an ex I had reconnected with. It was a mistake. At first it seemed as though we had both matured a lot and were more compatible than ever. We both had our shit together – it could really work this time. It didn’t. Turns out she hadn’t changed as much as I thought. And I should have seen it coning from a mile away.
She’s looking to feel good cuz some guy pumped and dumped her
Nah mate stay away from that shit