Dating : Fantastic First Date! Fears about getting attatched to quickly
Hey r/dating
I am a [20m] just getting back to the dating scene after a 6 month hiatus to save some money, acheive some goals. I went back to Tinder found this pretty girl. She intiates the conversation, we talk for a little bit, and eventually I ask her out for a date.
We both arrive to the place, and we just hit it off. The conversation never stalled, and flowed very easily. Afterwards she tells me that she likes sunset drives, and asks if I’d like to go on one. I say yes, and we head up to the canyon. We make out, laugh, and just vibe overall. Everytime I needed to go, she would pull me back and we would keep kissing each other. She kept talking about the future, and made me feel very happy.
I had a great time, and even called her the next day (something I’ve never done before) to schedule the next date. She said Yes.
My question is: How do I fight the attatchment that’s coming on so quickly? How do I slow myself down so I can enjoy the present, not be anxious, and also be rational for this.
TLDR: Had an awesome first date with hot girl, vibed well, can feel myself getting attatched way to quickly. How to fight the oncoming feels?
dont be too available as she may lose interest/get bored. it sounds you guys are still in the honeymoon phase. just realize you dont need to spend every waking minute with her, dont need to be speaking to her every second. you need to have a life outside of her. im sure she does as well.