Dating : FWB acting like he wants more?
I know this has been asked several times but nothing really fit my situation.
I went on a tinder date and we ended up going skinny dipping and having a great time and hooking up the next night. When I asked him what he was looking for he said nothing serious at the moment and we settled on friends with benefits.
I’m fine with friends with benefits but they’ve been giving me totally mixed signals. For example he gets extremely jealous when he knows I’m hanging out with guys who I might potentially date. He tells his friends about me and they all know who I am. He texts and snaps me 24/7 and does not only want to hang out with me for sex.
Sometimes we just hang out and watch movies and cuddle and rough house.
He got the vibe I felt used and so when we made plans to hang out (I assumed it was a hookup as per usual) he picked me up took me to eat- then took me to the beach at sunset and we walked there for a while before he took me to get ice cream and bought mine when I was waiting in line behind them.
He tries to make me jealous but I don’t let his games work. He will text me all night when he’s out at the bars even though I tell him to go have a good time and that we will talk tomorrow. He also ALWAYS drunk calls me. I’m just confused if he’s starting to come around to the idea of wanting to date me or is worried he’s going to miss out if I start dating someone else.
I’ve been seeing a guy who’s actually looking for something more serious but I’m worried about committing to him when I don’t know what’s going on with this guy.
I was definitely crushing hard at the beginning and now that I’m not I definitely don’t want to get the wrong idea and let feelings get involved.
Sorry for the jumbled mess I’m just confused.